Just do it!

So, I have been up and down a lot lately about losing weight.  I felt (and my husband commented) that I was really losing weight the past few weeks.  I was sticking with not eating after dinner and I was more focused on being active (aka getting lots of housework done) daily.  I felt different.  Then, the past week or so has felt like I am ballooning.  What a bummer.  hehe  Why "hehe"?  That is just me, realizing that I am typing things as they come to mind without editing them whatsoever.  Yikes!

Although I may be feeling like I am going all over with my weight, I am going to stick with it.  If there is anything that I have learned about how to be successful in losing weight, it is that you CANNOT always go by how you feel.  I sometimes feel like I am going backwards on this but if I give up, I really will.  This currently feeling may not be the truth so I would be robbing myself if I just threw in the towel.  I will be super excited and feel proud/excited/lots of other great feelings when I see the progress and know that it was all worth the little inconvenience.  So, for now, I am just going to keep trooping on and get over this hurdle.  It's not as if it is a huge sacrifice!

Also, a little tip.  I have noticed that I am most successful when I own the good habits that I have adopted into my weight-losing life.  For example, when I set a goal to not eat late, it make it a part of me.  I don't just consider myself as a person who is not currently eating after 6 or 7 pm.  I own it and think that because it is best for me, it is me.  This may sound weird but it has helped me so much!  I don't really have to think about if I will or will not.  I already chose that when I set my goals.  I knew it was good back then so I don't need to think about it anymore.  I just do it...

And here is my own personal motivation.  I am not this fat anymore!  whoo hoo!

Goals!!!......meh.

Ok, so I got you all excited for the goals post and then left you hanging for a couple of weeks.  I am so sorry about that (not sarcastic)!  I am till putting together a post about goals but for now, I would like to report.
I have been at this weight loss thing for a couple of months now.  I have felt some changes.  Some clothes fit better and some clothes that didn't fit before are starting to.  The scale says I have lost 20 lbs.  I am excited about that.  Well, I am pleased with that.  I don't actually feel like I have lost that much and I am losing focus because of that.  It has been two weeks of no exercise.
So, to get myself out of this rut, I am going to plan new activities for this week that will help me to use up energy (aka exercise) without having to strap on running shoes and go to Memorial Park at 5:30 am.  This is what I have been doing and now I am dreading it. haha!  I will need to get back to running, I believe but for now, I believe I will be dancing with my daughter Cordie in our living room.  Now that actually sounds fun!!!

just like this...lol

Take note!

I tried to find a picture of a nerd taking notes but the results of that search were ridiculous!

A few years ago, I was lucky enough to receive one of the best educations anyone could ask for.  I learned tons of life lessons then and found a love for goal-setting and achieving.  I believe that all areas of our life could be improved from setting goals and working to reach those goals.  So, today I have some things to remember in setting and working towards goals that will benefit you in your weight loss (It would really work for any goals).  I found these somewhere on some blog a while ago and now I can't figure out where...not cool.

• Break your major goals into manageable daily tasks and set aside the time- You want to lose weight? How are you going to do it?  Set daily goals for exercise, what you will eat, and even things like posture.
• Take pleasure from the work and reward your progress- It's best to enjoy the experience instead of trudging through it.  You will be more likely to succeed if you look for the joy in the journey as opposed to just doing it just to do it.  Also, when you have succeeded, find healthy ways to reward yourself!
• Remember your past successes and imagine how good you will feel when you accomplish your goal-  If you have ever lost any amount of weight in the past, remember HOW GOOD that felt and think how good that will feel again!  If you haven't yet been able to lose weight, remember another past success and focus on that feeling of how good you did and how that felt!  You can TOTALLY do this!
• Also imagine how bad it will feel to give up or mess up- I usually try not to focus on the negative but sometimes, you gotta remember that you have come this far and it will really stink to backslide.  Keep moving forward!
• Use competition, especially trying to improve on your best effort thus far, to arouse interest- How fast was your fastest mile?  How much is the most amount of sit-ups you have done in one day?  Now try to beat that!  You will be amazed at how well you can do when you compete against yourself!
• Seek encouragement and find "heroes" to inspire you- I definitely have some people I look up to when it comes to staying fit or losing weight.  Let them know that they are your hero (or just that you admire them haha) and ask for tips or ways for you to improve.  If you are close enough to them, see if they can work out with you sometime!  If you are really close, ask for them to be your mentor!!  Now that is cute!

I am going to be posting really soon about goals and other specifics so that we can be super efficient and successful in our weight loss goals!  Let's do this!

Late night cravings...ahh!

I have noticed in the few times I have tried to lose weight, that one of the most helpful and effective habits to get into is not eating before you go to bed.  I have heard that at least 3 hours before bed should be the last time you eat for the day.  I have even gone more than that and done 5 or 6 hours and it has been helpful but I don't know if it is great for metabolism or long terms weight loss.  When I have stopped eating at night, it seems like I don't even have to think about it and I start losing weight.  I have found it to be very effective!

One problem with this, though, is that the second you know you aren't supposed to do something, often times that is the only thing your mind wants to focus on.  So if you find that you are having late night cravings and feel yourself starting to feel weak to the growl of your stomach, go ahead and snack a bit but choose wisely in what you are going to cheat with.

Try and remember:

• Try first to drink a glass of water.  Sometimes you just need to have something in your stomach to take the edge off the hunger.  Since water is ZERO calories, make this your choice.
• If water doesn't curb your appetite, go for something that has very few calories and takes up a little bit of room in your tummy.  Something like a banana or slices of apple can be helpful to give your body a break from the HUNGER!!! haha!
• If you find that you are craving a specific food, maybe there is a healthier option that you can eat to calm your craving.  You are feeling like a pizza, for example, but something salty will do.  Grab a few pretzels instead!
• If you feel like there is no way to avoid it, you have to have that (fill in the blank of the very unhealthy yet so delicious food you crave) and there is no way around it, set a very conservative limit on how much you are going to eat of that food.  Instead of eating a whole slice of pizza, for example, you will eat only 2 bites and no more than that.  The bites can even be big!
• Please try and evaluate the craving you are having so that you don't go through the entire list above.  That would really stink if you ingested a banana, an apple, and a handful of pretzels only to come to terms with the idea that you MUST HAVE PIZZA.
• If you messed up and pigged out in your hunger weakness, don't worry!  You may have messed up today but there is always a chance to exercise a little extra tomorrow.  And for heaven's sake DON'T GIVE UP!  Giving up now will not get you to where you want to be!

Also, it does get easier with time.  After you get into the habit of not eating before bed, you will be able to walk through the kitchen without having to cover your eyes. haha!  But if you ever start getting weak, come back to this place and read your options!  Good luck and good night!

This fruit salad with actually taste BETTER than you think it will!   Promise!

Aych too Oh.

Most of the time when we read or hear about losing weight, drinking water is usually somewhere in the mix.  I have recently found that water can be a very important part in losing weight.  I will let you know how (from what I read here and here) and hopefully you will become a little closer to one of my best friends (water).

1)  Usually, the first few pounds that you lose are from water loss.  If you don't drink enough water, you will get dehydrated and/or bloated.  Dehydration slows down the fat-burning process so you MUST NOT GET DEHYRDATED. haha!  Ok, so there are a lot of other more important reasons why you shouldn't get dehydrated but that is an important one for us at this time.

2) To quote the first link: "Dehydration causes a reduction in blood volume; a reduction in blood volume causes a reduction in the supply of oxygen to your muscles; and a reduction in the supply of oxygen to your muscles can make you feel tired."  I have experienced this one a lot when it is hot (always) and it is a big bummer when you need to exercise or you just did and then you crash.  Gotta drink that water!

3) Does anyone like constipation?  I don't think so.  Why would I ask?  Well, in a healthy diet, we should be getting enough fiber.  Fiber helps with digestion but if you aren't getting enough water, you can actually get constipated.  SOOO,  don't let that happen.  Not fun.

4) Drinking water with a meal can make you feel fuller sooner.  That means you will eat less.  That means you will lose weight.  Cool.

5) It has been proven (you can read about it in the second link) that drinking water before eating with help you lose weight.  It has also been proven that drinking COLD water is more effective at that.  You go, COLD water!

6) Sometimes, when you get a craving or are feeling especially weak and want to put something in your stomach, you should choose water.  It can help fight those cravings and it has zero calories.  WIN WIN!!

7) This is a very small reason but it can only help.  Drinking cold water can help burn calories.  Your body uses calories to get the water up in temperature so that helps, right?

So obviously water is a part of losing weight that needs to be added into the equation.  I have noticed it saving me a couple of times when I am eyeballing a piece of chocolate or wanting to eat ALL of the dinner on the table.  I hope you all give water and try and let it work for you and your weight loss plan!  Good luck to you all!

It takes work!

Sometimes I get discouraged about this journey of weight loss.  Just now I read something that, for some reason, made me feel pretty motivated to keep going.  It is found here and it is by the actress Scarlett Johansson.  You may have seen her recently looking like this:

yeah, she looks good!

Her words were actually in response to some allegations made in tabloids about her weight loss.  But some of what she said really struck a cord with my recently-distracted-and-somewhat-discouraged heart.  She said:

"While training for an upcoming film, I've come to this conclusion: chin ups are near impossible and lunges suck. There is no magic wand to wave over oneself to look good in a latex catsuit. Eating healthy and getting fit is about commitment, determination, consistency and the dedication to self-preservation. While I've never been considered a gym rat, I have, in fact, worked up a sweat in the name of cardio before, and although I enjoy a grilled cheese as much as the next person, I combine the not-so-good foods I crave with an all-around balanced diet.

People come in all shapes and sizes and everyone has the capability to meet their maximum potential. Once filming is completed, I'll no longer need to rehash the 50 ways to lift a dumbbell, but I'll commit to working out at least 30 minutes a day and eating a balanced diet of fruit, vegetables and lean proteins. Pull ups, crunches, lunges, squats, jumping jacks, planks, walking, jogging and push ups are all exercises that can be performed without fancy trainers or gym memberships. I've realized through this process that no matter how busy my life may be, I feel better when I take a little time to focus on staying active. We can all pledge to have healthy bodies no matter how diverse our lifestyles may be."

This is the mind set I have been hoping to be able to establish and maintain for the rest of my life.  I know that it is true.  I know that working out is not fun and that everyone wants to eat what they want to eat whenever they want and maintain their goal weight, but it just isn't feasible.   So we must continue in healthy habits and love ourselves for what and who we are.  I hope these words help you girls maintain a healthy mindset as it has done for me.  Enjoy your weekend!

Thinking forward...

Now that we have been at this weight loss thing for a little while now, I hope everyone has either felt or seen some kind of changes in ourselves.  I am not talking just about physical appearance or sizes but about how we feel about ourselves.  It have recently realized that it is not as important to love how we look as it is to love how we feel about ourselves.  As a little challenge for you gals, I want you to think forward about how you want to feel at the end of this journey.  Maybe you want to feel more confident.  Maybe you want to be more positive to yourself and towards others.  Maybe you want to have your looks be less of an issue to you on a daily basis.  Maybe you want to feel like yourself in your own skin.  Whatever it is that you want to feel like, work towards that state daily.  AND while you are doing that let it be a great motivation for reaching your weight loss goals!  You will reach that if you consistently work towards it!!  Have a great day, gals

This woman looked the most genuinely happy and real.  Love this.

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Workout!

Hopefully everyone is still motivated and positive about this experience and the goals we have set.  Reaching any goal has it's ups and downs and sometimes the downs are lower than we may have experienced before.  I hope that no matter what happens or how you have detoured, you have got to keep on going and know that there is some exciting things waiting for you ahead!

I have been thinking a lot lately about working out.  I know lots of people have questions when it comes to the best workouts or what they can handle or what they should do to get the results they want.  I am definitely not a expert about this. I often find myself WANTING to do an effective workout in the small amount of time that I have and I usually end up wishing that I could have done a scientifically-proven efficient workout that I can do with out a whole lot of hassle (AKA  lots of equipment, prep time, or confusing moves).  While viewing Pinterest the other day, I saw a workout that many people have posted before.  It seems to me to be a pretty good one to have in your back pocket.  If you have some extra time or you just want to have a workout in your head at all times, this might be a good one to take note of.  Here it is:

(Before I continue, I sure hope anyone reading this knows that working out is not supposed to be intermediate, so to speak, at the beginning or contain intense pain ever.  If you are just getting started working out, you should definitely ease into this one.  I am not a expert [is it obvious? :D] so please read this knowing that.)
So, back to the workout.  Well, it seems good because it contains aerobics with some muscle toning.  I know that both of those help with the overall shedding of fat and the health of your body.  I also really like how the numbers help you remember how many of each move you should do.
So, if you find yourself trying to think of what you should do in your precious spare time, you might consider applying this or just some of the moves to get started.  It seems like a challenge worth taking on!
I will leave you with a picture to get you motivated to get moving!  I love you girls!

I am pretty sure I NEVER look like this when working out but its a nice picture.

A New Start!

Welcome to our blog!!!  I, Jennie, created it but I am hoping that everyone will have a chance to contribute so that it will be a much better way to get us all pumped!  PS Thanks to Brittany for putting the idea in my mind to start this blog! 

I am not great at blog design but I wanted to make one that was pretty neutral in style and kind of expressed a little bit of what I think all of our styles are.  (Did it work at all? lol)  I put this background both for the style aspect and so that we could all imagine how great it would feel to be on a beach somewhere, in our bathing suit, feeling totally confident!  It is going to happen and I know it is a part of our future plans!

another inspiration...plus, its just beautiful, like you girls.  (cheesiness aside, it is true.)

 Keep doing great, gals!